Category: Mentoring

AN INTENTIONAL CHECK LIST

checklist-1622517_960_720In preparation for a new year, I spent a recent December on a retreat at home to get perspective from the Lord for the coming year.

Through the process, I heard the Lord speak one word  –  INTENTIONAL

I then crafted a number of questions that serves as a check list, to help me understand how I might move forward more INTENTIONALLY into the new year.

  1. What on earth am I here for?
  2. How can I take my calling to the next level?
  1. What are the good things that could prevent me from doing the best things?
  2. What steps do I need to take to continue living a life of

WORDS THAT HAVE SHAPED MY LIFE (92) “DO YOU THINK GOD WOULD CREATE JUNK?”

Rod Denton Induction at Elizabeth Church of Christ_2012I will never forget the lady who came to me one day to talk about some difficulties she was having with her son. It soon emerged that the bigger problem she was having, was that of accepting herself and realising she was a person of great value. The breakthrough came when I told her how special she was because she was unconditionally loved by God, and was of great value because God created her, and that He would never make “junk”, and even more He sent Jesus to die for her.
The next day I received the following note from her:
“Dear Rod, at our last meeting I came to

WORDS THAT HAVE SHAPED MY LIFE (91) “NEVER A DULL MOMENT”

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As I write this WORDS, I am daily attending a Cancer Centre where for 35 consecutive weekdays I am undergoing radiotherapy for cancer in my body.

The thought of driving to and from the Cancer Centre to go through a precise medical procedure that is supervised by trained staff, was not something I was looking forward to; until I read of Paul’s experiences in a Roman jail as explained in his letter to the Philippians.

Paul wrote, “And I want you to know, my dear brothers and sisters, that everything that has happened to me here has helped to spread the Good News. For EVERYONE here, including the whole

WORDS THAT HAVE SHAPED MY LIFE (90) “YOU DON’T GET A SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE A FIRST IMPRESSION”

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A psychologist at the Harvard Business School, Amy Cuddy, has been studying “first impressions” for more than a decade. According to her research, 80% to 90% of a first impression is based on two subconscious questions we and the people we meet ask ourselves:

  • Can I trust that this person has good intentions towards me?
  • Is this person competent?

In other words, if a person’s first impressions of you are friendly, competent and trustworthy, they are more likely to feel comfortable around you and open up to you. And it can happen in as little as three seconds.
Some practical guidelines to making a good first impression include:

  1. BE PREPARED